As I read the most recent issue of The Journal of Religion, Disability, and Health, I found myself stuck on the article titled Christian Community and Uncommon Courtesy. This particular work was written in response to a newspaper article which reported all too common occurrences in our places of worship, fear and intolerance to difference. The article described how a young woman, an Individual With Disabilities (IWD) and her mother were asked to leave worship by an usher after the young woman outburst during a time of prayer and communion. As the article reports, the young woman, her mother, and her siblings left church that day never to return. Bethany McKinney, author of the Journal of Religion, Disability, and Health article, suggests that a number of wrongs were written that day and that the congregation not only sent a negative message to the young woman and her family, but also impeded their own growth.
In her article, McKinney suggests that there are several reasons why a congregation should include a 'disruptive' person in worship, the first of which examines the term disabled. McKinney suggests, as do others in the field, that each of us are temporarily able-bodied persons (Nancy Eiesland), that at one point in our lives whether due to physical injury, brain disorder, aging, or even allergies, each of us will in someway experience what it means to be disabled. Building on the concept of being temporarily able-bodied, McKinney goes on to suggest that, 'welcoming people with disabilities, even when deeply inconvenient, can be a self-serving exercise in empathy.'(288) That, 'by relating to people with disabilities in their midst, members of (the) congregation[s] have the opportunity to deepen their empathic skills and to become more honest and loving toward their own bodies.' (289) Secondly, McKinney suggests that 'worshiping among people with developmental disabilities often means there is an element of unpredictability inherent in the service,' (298) but that we are each called to remember that, 'in worship the church is made vulnerable to a God that would rule this world not by coercion but through the unpredictability of love.' (Hauerwas)
For McKinney, the solution to the aforementioned problems lies in a renewed faithful imagination on the part of the worshiping community. McKinney suggests that while the differences of the young girl mentioned in the article 'included loud shrieks and screams during some quieter moments of the worship service, and that this event could prove quite disconcerting for others, this reality, however does not excuse the community from visioning for ways to include her in their time or worship. Her differences, incompatible as they may seem with many of the traditional elements of a Sunday morning service, do not take her beyond the possibility of inclusion. Rather they call the receiving community to a deeper level of imagination as they struggle to find a way to be faithful members of the household of God.' (304)
While many have weighed in on the the ethical dilemma of the young woman and the congregation, few have discussed what faithful imagination might occur within congregations. So what does McKinney's suggestion mean for congregations? I would suggest that it means creativity, flexibility, and an openness to allowing the Holy Spirit to move through the congregation. That it means developing relationships (...and we're back) and educational opportunities among the members of the worshiping community (Those who have gone before us.). That it means finding ways to lift-up the gifts of all members of the community in a variety of ways, both in worship and within the communities life (JOY!).
So as we continue on this journey, consider how you might encourage your congregations faithful imagination both in ministering with IWD and with the greater congregation.
Monday, November 1, 2010
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Eli,
ReplyDeleteHaving just experience the situation at school with an autistic child I have really prayed about how we can include those with disabilities into our worship services. Truly the tides are changing and we are certainly going to be faced with these opportunities sooner than later. One thing I have learned is that inclusion is not always the correct answer. Not because of those who are not tolerant of special needs but for the person with the disability. Sometime a "regular" worship service is not meeting the needs of that person. I agree with the article that the church did not send the appropriate message to the family however we must be able to provide an alternative way for those with disabilities to worship. How many times did Jesus reach out to the sick, blind, deaf and afflicted. He is our Healer and we are to do his will/work. My thoughts go back to what is best for the person with the disabilities. Whether we meet that need in a regular service or provide a class that can meet their needs is something we should explore. Just as we have "age appropriate classes" for children an appropriate setting for special needs may be an option as to just a Sunday morning service. My true feelings are that not every person needs to worship in a "regular" service. We are even seeing that with people without disabilities. Our relationship with God are often times met on a walk in the woods, a smile on a child's face, a flower in bloom. We definitely need to think "outside of the box" as they say. I can tell you that the people at the Capital Area Intermediate Unit have been a blessing to the school and a wonderful resource. I know God is with us as we take on these challenges and you are a blessing to us and church.
In Christ, Rae
Eli, This post reminded me of a young woman who was a member of the congregation where I was a member several years ago. Patti was in her early twenties and had Down's syndrome. Every week at the end of the Sunday morning worship service, Patti would go up to the chancel and kneel on the floor in front of the large cross on the wall, fold her hands, close her eyes, and spend 10 or 15 minutes praying fervently to "Jesus-my-savior" (all one word, never to be separated). Her actions made some people in the congregation extremely uncomfortable, but I thought (and still think) that it was one of the most amazing acts of pure faith and devotion I have every witnessed. And it made me realize what a great gift it is to a congregation to have someone in their midst who, for whatever reason, lacks the kind of inhibitions that keep most of us "behaving properly" in worship.
ReplyDeleteEli and Melanie,
ReplyDeleteThanks to both of you for sharing these inspiring reflections. This created world is an amazing place if we only have eyes to see. (Reminds me of the thesis of Barbara Brown Taylor's book, An Altar in the World.)
One of my favorite memories is of Grace, a young girl with Down Syndrome. Whenever she heard the first chords of the hymn, Amazing Grace, she would arise from her seat--usually front row--and begin her very own liturgical dance. I've never seen such a rapturous expression on a face as Grace's when she danced to her very own hymn.
Blessings,
Susan
Dear Eli,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this research with us. Our first grandchild, Alex, was born 10 months ago with a massive brain hemmorage on the right side of his brain and hydrocephalus. As we watch him grow, it is quite clear he will experience some degree of developmental delay.
Our family have received many expressions of support nad sympathy for Alex and his parents. I have struggled with finding an appropriate reaponse to the expressions of sympathy because i just don't feel sorry about what has happened. I know Alex as a blessed child of God just as you or I. I have always believed thathe label of disability is only a metter fo degree and that we are all disabled to some degree. But thinking of myself and all of us as "temporarily able-bodied" is an even better was of understanding what we are and are not, what we will be or will not be. Alex has weathered every challenge of his new life with outcomes far better than the dire predictions of his many physicians and -ologists. Only God knows where he will end up which is the same any of us can say for ourselves.
Not only this - but I believe some kind of fatihful imagination is at work in our family, and will continue to surround and uplift us as we watch Alex develop, sometimes with trepidation and somtimes with joy. Reading about your journey with individuals' with disabilities reminds me to nurture a faithful imagination and anticipation for the continued gifts Alex has already given us as we witness his courageous journey so far.